Thursday, July 25, 2013

So much has gone on since I last wrote here... a whole 7 months ago! We'll start with an update on the house.

We are loving life in our new house and so thankful and blessed to own a home we love. We are still working on painting... we've painted everything but the hallways and one bedroom. And last weekend we bought paint for the hallways! I also bought paint to paint the front door red/orange which I'm pretty excited about.

So much paint!
Jeff has been doing all the hard work... he pulled out all of the bushes in front of the porch. Its amazing how much better the front of the house looks now that you can actually see it! We still have plans to pull out the bushes in front of the office window then we need to fill in all this bare dirt with some new plants. There will definitely be hydrangeas involved! I also planted my very first garden this summer and have successfully grown zucchini, squash, and green beans. I also have three watermelons growing right now which I am so excited about. They are like my little children and I loving checking to see how much they have grown every day when I get home.

My "obsession" right now is figuring out our guest room. Looking for the perfect white comforter (that doesn't cost an arm and a leg).

Jeff and I are heading to Eleuthera, Bahamas in the morning with a group from Grace for Culturally engaged training camp. I'm hoping to write about it when we get back.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

The Real Home Owners

Since apparently my mom stinks at updating this blog, I'm taking over today.... My name is Willie and my brother Carl and I are the dachshunds that rule the blue house.

This is me, Willie

This is my brother Carl (and me in the background)

We spend our days keeping the people in line and doing awesome things like chasing bugs, eating grass, and licking the carpet! Ah, life really doesn't get any better.

We'll be checking in regularly to keep you up to date on our exciting lives, but for now a nap is calling my name. I've been awake for a whole 30 minutes! 

Talk to you later humans.

- Willie

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Welcome 2013

I've never really been one for New Years resolutions. But I do agree with Jess that we need to be intentional about things. Only when we are intentional about things do things begin to happen. So, these are my intentions for the coming year

It seems like this should come easy...I'm a follower of Christ, He is supposedly in charge of my life, why wouldn't I spent time with Him? But as we keep learning in church, it doesn't come easy. Rigor, as Bill said. It takes Rigor. We have to work at it. Work at making the time, clearing the mental space, seeking the quiet. And I am terrible at all of these things. I guess it seems like it should come easy; I should desire to spend time with God. And I do. I do desire it, yet I still don't make it a priority. I spend more time comparing my spiritual life to others than I do actually building it. I am thankful to be involved in a church and a Christian community where I am continually reminded of how important it is to spend time with the Lord - reading his word, praying, listening... and my prayer is that I can begin to truly see the value of it and make it a higher priority in my life. 

This is a big one for me.... and a hard one. This goal/idea has two facets to it. The first is my attitude towards others. I need to learn to be kind, gracious, and loving towards others at all times. This is the way God loves us and the way He calls us to love others.  I need to show them the same grace the Father shows me. Which leads to the second part of this.... being gracious towards myself. I need to focus on the fact that I am a redeemed and forgiven daughter of the King. He has already forgiven me and pours out un-measurable grace. I need to show myself that same grace. I tend to hold on to things, like, really hold on to them. I still beat myself up about stupid things I said or did years ago. If I misspeak, or embarrass myself,  I wake up the next morning thinking about it and crafting page long apologies in my head when more than likely its already been forgotten by everyone else. Showing myself a little grace will go a long way. 
My grandmother gave me a sewing machine as a bridal shower gift almost 4 years ago. I have yet to learn to use it. But I want to make curtains, and someday a quilt. So its about time I learned! 
I like to write and to document things, I do. I "write" a lot of things in my head but never actually write them down or type them out. Often its because I don't know where to start, or because I don't think its good enough. I'm hyper critical of what I write (see number 2 above). But I need to just start doing it. Looking back at points when I have been diligent to write things down, I love having it to look back on.

I hope to post some updates on these things through out the year (which will fulfill number 4) and I hope to start posting on here more!

Blessings for a great new year!

Monday, December 3, 2012

Dear Dental Molding,
You are so pretty, but man does it stink having to paint the sides of every.single.tooth.

Friday, October 5, 2012

learning>>>on being content

Why is it so difficult to be content?

I so often find myself comparing myself to others.... their jobs, homes, vacations, craftiness... anything and everything. And when I do that its so easy to start picking my life and myself apart. Things I want that I dont have, things I want to do, skills I wish I had. But its SO easy. Easy to let my mind go there. To feel jealousy and frustration and, well, discontent.

And when I do this it doesn't just affect me. It affects my husband too. It makes him feel like what he is providing me isn't good enough.

So maybe our house doesn't have an amazing outdoor space and wood floors? Yes, we made sacrifices on some of the things we wanted, but we knew when we bought the house that it was the one for us. I felt it the first time I walked in. If that's the case, why do I find myself being jealous or asking myself if we made the right choice or if we could have done better? Why is it so hard to just be thankful for what I have?

This is something I need to be more aware of and working to combat. I need to not let my mind be poisoned by greed and envy and learn to be content with the amazing wonderful life God has given me. I truly am so blessed in so many ways. I pray He will make me more aware of my blessings and help me fight the feelings of discontent.

traveling>>>sullivan's island and kiawah

At the end of August, Jeff and I went down to Charleston for the weekend. I have been to Charleston a few times but always for an event (grandmas birthday, the bridge run) and I've never actually gone to the beach while I was there. Yes, there were morning walks, but never a day of laying in the sun, swimming, and general beach-age.

Lucky for us, Jeff's aunt and uncle live on Sullivan's Island. They just bought a house with a huge porch thats a few blocks from the beach. I mean, does it get much better than this?

We spent most of Friday and Saturday at the beach. The weather was perfect and we had a great time. We were there with Jeff's brother and his girlfriend, and his Nana also joined us on the beach on Saturday. Here are a few pics from the trip.

On Saturday evening on our way back home, we made a little detour down to Kiawah. This was my first time to Kiawah and I am desperate to go back. We were only there about an hour, but it is absolutely beautiful!

And the reason for our hour long visit to Kiawah?...

To take some pictures of my brother-in-law and his fiance right after he proposed!

Overall we had a great little getaway for 2 days that was really all part of the engagement plan. So excited to add Dawn to the family and that we could spend the weekend with them and be there to celebrate their engagement!

Thursday, October 4, 2012

living>>>serving for the right reasons

As I'm working on the logo and designs for our company "Worldwide Week of Service" it has me thinking about serving and why I do or don't do it. Having taken photos at several of our company service projects, it always blows me away to learn about the organizations we are helping. So many of them are volunteer driven and run - people who are just giving up their time and energy to help others. Its one thing to serve at church, its another entirely to go spend three afternoons a week cooking and serving at a soup kitchen.

Serving at church is easy. We are there already, my friends do it, and you get to connect with cute 5th grade kids who think you are the best thing since sliced bread. Like I said, pretty easy. But never has it really crossed my mind to go get involved with a charity organization outside of church.

I would like to think that some day, when I'm not working full time, I will be willing to give my life away in that way. And I want to do it for the right reasons. I know that I tend to serve because it makes me feel better about myself, or because it makes me look good. I find myself feeling prideful about giving up my time to help others. But Jesus calls us to serve because that is what he was - a servant. He spent his time with the poor and the lonely and the outcasts out of love, not for the sake of his reputation or a resume or the feel-good feeling He got. And we are called to be like Jesus which means serving and doing it with the right heart.

I pray that as I do serve in church I do it for the right reasons and don't become prideful. I pray God will open my eyes to see new ways I can serve, ones that might stretch me a little, and that when those opportunities come I will be willing to act.